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Kindred spirits connect at North Gower horse farm

Reference: CBC News

There's more than one kind of sanctuary available at Kindred Farm Rescue in North Gower, in Ottawa's rural south end.

The remote farm is a safe space for horses once destined for slaughter. Some were abused or neglected. Others, including a chestnut named Talia, were trotters and pacers culled from the horse-racing world.

"She ended up [marked for] the slaughterhouse six weeks after her last race," said farm manager Liz Tompkins.

But Kindred Farm Rescue has also become a haven for struggling kids and at-risk youth. They work with Tompkins and commune with four-legged friends, from a large draft horse named Rhea to a pair of miniature ponies, Tuxedo and Waffles.

Tompkins is a certified personal development coach who offers an equine-assisted learning program. Her clients are often referred to her by the Children's Aid Society. Some have fetal alcohol spectrum disorder, or FASD. Some are on the autism spectrum. Some are living in group homes away from their families.

Tompkins calls out to her "staff" as they nibble hay in a paddock. They amble over, looking for a fibre nugget horse treat. She reaches out to scratch Rhea's neck.

"If you look into her eyes, you can see the depths of your own soul," said Tompkins. "It gets me every time."

That non-verbal communication is key to what's happening on this farm.

Clients are matched with a horse during a "herd walk," a kind of meet-and-greet where kindred spirits connect. It's not about learning to ride, it's about letting down barriers and building trust.

One exercise involves blindfolding the youth, who stands beside the horse simply listening to the cadence of its breathing. Another challenge involves leading the horse through a series of obstacles.

Tompkins describes one client who calms herself with the repetitive and contemplative act of brushing a horse. "She just decompresses," Tompkins said.

"I have a girl coming tonight who's been here three times this week. She's FASD and she's going through a hard time right now with COVID," said Tompkins.

"Horses live in the moment. They help the client become more relaxed. You start listening to their heart rate or to their pulse, which is slower than ours. If you start to take a breath with them, then everything slows," she said. "To have something so powerful be so kind and soft and gentle — who wouldn't feel it?"... Read More